Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Tuesday Tidbit

God Made Moms To Teach Their Children....The Importance of Expressing Your Feelings.

It's importance to encourage our young children, old children, husbands, boyfriends, family members, friends, and coworkers to express what their really feeling. There is always an appropriate time and place for that expressing but the need is always there - that's called creating a balance for the one expressing the feelings and for the one hearing it. We should not leave room for assumptions because most likely "the assumption", your assumption is wrong. We live and function in a society where we behave as robots/robotics and then when we do see those expressions of true feelings we see "transformers". To keep it short, men and women miss out on love and being loved...they didn't express their true feelings. Men and women get abused,used, and neglected...they didn't express their true feelings. Children have suffered abuse and neglect...they couldn't express true feelings. We miss out on promotions and opportunities...we don't express our true feelings.

If you love him or her...express it.
If you don't like it....express it.
If your angry...express it.
If your sad...express it.
If you don't trust or believe what's being said....express it.
If you want or need to leave...express it.
If you want it...express it.
If you don't know what or how to feel...still express it.

Be honest with yourself first by letting others know what you're really feeling, you'll be surprised by the response you receive. I am 41 years old and I'm still learning to express myself. Think about if I were taught as a child to express myself :).

Be Blessed and Encouraged today,it's your choice. ~ Delphine

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